There is a culprit…
I was at a local middle school conducting an author visit and had just finished my talk when an adorable seventh-grade boy asked if we could step away from the crowd so he could speak with me. I’ll never forget what he said: “I picked out a day to kill myself.”
It’s one thing to know the statistical fact that suicide is the second-leading cause of death among young people. It’s another thing to personally know and love a student who attempts or succeeds at taking his or her life. Harder still is to bury one’s own child who lost the will to live.
If it seems like you’re hearing more tragic stories than ever lately about young people committing suicide, it’s no coincidence. According to an article in USA Today, the number of children and teens admitted to hospitals for contemplating suicide or self-harm has more than doubled in the last decade.
Researchers have a variety of theories: the graphic nature of the internet, school-related stressors, economic disadvantages, the negative side effects of antidepressants, and of course, bullying. Then there are TV shows like 13 Reasons Why . . . (sigh).
While I fully acknowledge the potential of these factors to sway students, I’m convinced that the root cause of suicide was made known a long time ago, in the Bible. Furthermore, I believe that behind every case of suicidal hopelessness and despair, demonic influences are at work.
The Real Culprit
The Bible tells us that Satan comes to steal, kill and destroy (John 10:10), and that he’s always on the hunt for victims to devour (1 Peter 5:8 ). Scripture also says in this life, our real fight is in the unseen spiritual realm; we wrestle against demonic powers and principalities, rulers of darkness, and spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12).
If that sounds a little “out there” to you, consider how this plays out in everyday life.
Whether considered the result of a chemical imbalance, mental instability or some other factor, suicidal people battle self-sabotaging thoughts, such as . . .
My life isn’t worth living.
No one will care if I die.
I’ll never be good enough.
The only way out of this is to kill myself.
You and I recognize that those statements are lies, right? Well, Satan’s weapon is lies (John 8:44), and he knows how to use people, circumstances, and demonic voices aimed at the human soul to oppress his intended targets. You can’t examine this under a microscope or prove it through blood sample analysis.
A friend of mine shared how her young relative admitted to hearing voices that beckoned her to kill herself; weeks later, the girl jumped in front of a moving train. Although often unreported, hearing oppressive voices is not as rare as some may think—if not a tangible sound in a suicidal person’s ear, it’s so strong in his or her mind that it feels audible.
Are we sure that’s pure insanity?
As our society becomes increasingly skeptical, if not antagonistic, of biblical truth, students have no clue that there is a spiritual enemy who’s out to destroy them, much less how to combat his lies with the hope and truth found in Christ. Combine that with the moral and social decay reaped by a society that widely rejects God’s standards for righteous living, and it’s no wonder despair is on an exponential rise.
I’m grateful for anti-suicide programs and hotlines that students can call in times of desperation. That said, the Bible gives the ultimate solution for counteracting the crises:
. . . if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 2:14
That’s no pie-in-the-sky strategy. If God’s children will unite in a widespread, consistent commitment to prayer, demonic forces will lose ground.
When prayer is combined with an intentional effort to help students grasp the spiritual battle that rages and the biblical truth to overcome evil lies, we pave the way for potential suicide victims to instead choose to live their lives to the fullest—and inspire their peers to do the same.
You don’t have to take my word for it. Watch the testimony of the seventh-grade boy who confided in me about his plans to kill himself:
Then get Laura’s book The Delusion here.
You may not know that I lost a sister – a PhD nurse – to suicide. The enemy is real and his ways are insidious. She too heard what she called “crickets in my head ALL.THE.TIME.” Oh what I did not know then…
I must share this – lies of the enemy are revealed and exposed as you read The Delusion, spellbound by Laura’s powerful words.
In a youth culture intrigued by the paranormal yet often skeptical of biblical claims, author and speaker Laura Gallier seeks to bring awareness and understanding to issues surrounding the supernatural. Having battled her own enemies of the soul throughout her teen and young adult years, she is on a mission to expose deception with the light of truth, bringing hope and healing to a generation in need.
Laura lives in the greater Houston area with her husband, Patrick, and their three children. Get to know Laura better on her website. And pray for her community in the midst of Hurricane Harvey.
12 thoughts on “What You Need to Know About the Invisible Culprit Behind Teen Suicide”
Susan and Laura- this is an issue near and dear to me. My husband’s best friend/uncle committed suicide 4 years ago. He had been plowing his church’s parking lot the morning he shot himself. I do believe he fell for the lies and was a target of the evil one.
He is deeply missed!
Thanks for sharing and exposing this!
Such a sobering post. I teach young teens and the severity of what they face is astonishing. The evil is real. Thanks for the book recommendation, I’m going to check it out!
Thanks for writing on such a tough subject. So needed.
Thank you for making us aware of this valuable resource!
Great post, and I am absolutely convinced that the root is demonic, for teens and adults. When I was still teaching (college) I had a suicidal student come to my office, armed. He was a re-entry student with a family, and felt he was failing them because he was having trouble with the coursework.
Long story short, three hours later he gave up the pistol and agreed to church-based counseling. Quite an afternoon, that was.
#1 at FMF this week.
This battle is here. I lost a dear dear friend to suicide. I lived in the same town as he did so when he had it all planned and was ready to take his life, he came to my apt and left a note along with a few other things. When I got home from work, and found this envelope in my mail slot, I knew…I just knew. I was faced with finding him and dealing with the police and all. A nightmare. God has used his death for good in my life, but oh, my. He had been searching for the Truth but I was naive then about the Truth so could not share it with him either.
Thank you for writing this book and sharing it across this space and many others.
The battle is real and it’s happening younger and younger. We had a local child a few years ago who was 8-years old. At any age, suicide is heart-wrenching – the thought of someone losing all hope in life. We have a real enemy who seeks to kill and destroy the bright future and destiny of the next generation. Let’s rise up to cover them in prayer and call out those beautiful traits in them. Thank you so much for sharing this POWERFUL testimony and book!!! WHAT AN INSPIRATION!!!
Laura, I agree with you that the source is spiritual. You book sounds a like a timely source of insight and help. I’ve pointed many people to Neil Anderson’s classics, Victory Over the Darkness and The Bondage Breaker. Thank you for your work and ministry!
Thank you for drawing light to this….the spiritual battle going on. I have struggled with anxiety and depression all my life. Mine is a chemical imbalance and thankfully, with proper medicine and counseling, I can navigate life fairly well. But, before I was diagnosed, I went through some terrible depression episodes and you better believe the enemy was pouncing on me when I was down – whispering lies in my ear. Lies I began to believe. The thoughts were so tortuous that yes, some days I truly wanted to end my life to escape them. If you’ve never experienced true depression, you don’t know what it does to your mind and how the enemy plays upon it…a lethal combination. Recognizing signs of depression, noticing ways people are self medicating, and talking about the real spiritual battle going on are all ways we can help curb the tide on suicide. Much needed post.
We’ve had a upsurge in teen suicides here in midcoast Maine in the past few years. Heartbreaking. Thank you for stirring my heart to renewed prayer.
This is a powerful video and I’m sure a powerful book. Good for you for following God’s urging to write Laura. Thank you for sharing this Susan.
OH, what a heartbreak this is, yet I am so grateful that you are talking about it. Lies keep their power when their hidden. But when there is light….even the littlest bit….we see hope.
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